cute!

what is the small one?

how nice of them.

That’s actually a nice tradition. Also cool, that they add eyeballs. And still less scary than these Krampus-marches, i can imagine

time well spent 😌

exactly

thanks

Are the colourful shapes on the screen the original screen from the show? And if so, what are they supposed to be?

oh hey that’s Stephan Salvatore

thank you for the recommendations. :) I already heared about Soda Stereo and Molotiv. Mexican Bands are next on my list. I already discovered Pantheón Róccocó some years ago. There is a lot to explore still :)

Thanks i will check them out :)

nice. hopefully i can see them live one day :)

Thanks. I was trying to find nice spanish singing rockbands or metalbands to help motivate me to learn spanish. And then i found the cover art so funny that i listened to more of their songs and they are really awesome. :)

my thumbs up because you also know them :) i’m really happy i discovered them today and i’m happy someone also knows them. It was a good day and life is good :)

so how do you know Mägo de Oz? And have you seen them live?

yeah!!!

I used to collect Lady death comics and it is actually a cool story. I also liked Evil Ernie and Chastity. Lady death is a bit cooler than Vampirella.

anything from Chaos Comics is really nice.

thank you too, for your thoughts and for beeing respectful.

well that is sad to hear

Ok…projecting a lot of stuff here. I was just asking if it is still that bad nowadays and how to respond better out of interest

I would also think that this “men-up”-mentality is a generational thing and eventually (hopefully) dies out soon (in men and women and anything inbetween). In order for that to happen it would probably help not to reproduce and repeat the belief that the mentality persists (for example by sharing memes that suggest otherwise…maybe i can help with that). You know… be the change you wanna see.

I guess there is also a nasty trend of going backwards and anti-DEI all over the world (in my understanding the E in DEI is suppose to also cover that whole male-mental-health inequality aspect) so that doesn’t help.

Regarding the response “go to therapy”: i was told the same thing several times and it sometimes felt like “i don’t want to listen to your problems anymore” or “go fix yourself, you’re not functioning like you’re supposed to” and that does hurt. As i grew older i realized that these responders usually mean well and probably were overwhelmed themselves or were simply unable to help or didn’t feel qualyfied enough to help. So the message they were unable to transport probably was something arround: “i care for your feelings and i am here for you but also i have limits to be respected and i want you to get the best help you need. Sadly i can not provide this, so i would suggest to seek help of a professional. I will help you as best as i can to make this happen”

Another aspect is (I’m not trying to derail now, or use whataoutism this is just sideaspect or orverlapping development) the somewhat common expectation that women are expected to do care work or emotional labour for free, which sometimes gets disappointed. And maybe there is a trend of women being less willing to do so nowadays. I don’t know If that makes sense and one would have to look at actual data on this but i don’t even know which field of study collects data on this topic.

any way it seems to be a somewhat complex topic but i stand with the believe that memes shape perception of the world and one can use that to also shape that stupid society for the better (i know i am heavily overestimating the power of memes but one can hope and dream :))