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  • Doug@piefed.socialtomemes@lemmy.worldJust look at em go.
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    12 days ago

    Yeah I learned from experience 😔

    And I only say to use the clear stuff because it makes cleaning much easier. I’m sure it’s perfectly fine otherwise. edit: this is wrong, apparently; the red dye is in fact bad for them.

    But yeah it really needs regular cleaning. It may look OK on the outside, but those holes fill up quick.

    I use an app called Sweepy to help me stay on track with what needs cleaning and when it needs it, otherwise I’d totally space it.


  • Doug@piefed.socialtomemes@lemmy.worldJust look at em go.
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    As someone who grew up with elders telling him time speeds up as you get older, I spent a year or so researching with anxiety what I could do to mitigate this feeling.

    The first thing to do is refuse to indulge this idea that one day being an elder just happens: as they say, if you declare it’s a bad day in the morning, you’re conditioning yourself to look for confirmations that the day is indeed going to be bad, while potentially overlooking the good.

    Time, objectively, goes at the same speed your entire life— for most people, sans astronauts or regular mountain climbers. It’s your perception of it that changes, thanks to your memory. The theory is memory is a survival mechanism: it really only commits things to memory that it deems a potential threat. If your day is routine, you are safe, there is no need for your mind to automatically record it.

    So instead you need to manually record it. At the end of the day, journal either physically or mentally what you did today.

    I personally use Daylio (which records data points) and BeReal (forces you to take a pic at a random time of day of yourself and whatever is in front of you), and every now and again I get to look back and say “wow, it really has been an entire month, eh?”

    The other thing to do to combat it is make new memories/avoid routine, but sadly many of us are not in a position to afford this one.

    For me it helps I am really into movies; I can’t really afford to travel, but movies are new experiences to me in and of themselves, and are a hacky way for me to make new memories in an otherwise routine life.


  • Doug@piefed.socialtomemes@lemmy.worldJust look at em go.
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    12 days ago

    If it’s a hummingbird feeder, make sure you clean it weekly/regularly, otherwise it can spread disease.

    Don’t get that red dyed nectar either, get the clear stuff; don’t fill the entire feeder; get a straw scrubber for the holes; make sure the feeder has those anti bee things, otherwise it can attract wasps. I don’t have to deal with squirrels, but good luck if you do.



  • You know what’s really weird about nostalgia now, and is only gonna get weirder for future generations? Video games are these entire worlds preserved, where everything is exactly as it was, so you can experience a moment in time (sans your peripheral environment) exactly as it was years ago when you first had it.

    Unlike real life where a house is demolished or a new development gets put in where a field was, it’s every single thing right where it was, sounding as it did.

    To me that’s a crazy thing to think about, and how it accesses and fills every crevice of a memory you had about it, no matter how buried.







  • Doug@piefed.socialtomemes@lemmy.worldArtists vs “Creators”
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    When I did webcomics I was worried nobody would think they were funny or had some reservations about public opinions.

    Then I watched some documentary on comic artists, including Calvin & Hobbe’s Bill Watterson, and he said something like “I just make something I think is funny, and if my wife also thinks it’s funny that’s a bonus, and everyone else can think whatever they want to think, but I’m happy with it, and that’s all I really cared about.”

    And that was enough for me to get into it.

    Make it for you first. Everyone else is a bonus.




  • I have to admit I appreciate the behavioral psychology behind Costco’s layout.

    They put the expensive things first and up front so that, on your way into the store, you’ve been mentally anchored to high prices (even if they’re prices for things you’d never buy). If you even considered or said to yourself “well, maybe someday” about their TVs, computers, or pianos, you are spending the rest of your time in Costco seeing prices for everything else and saying to yourself “hm, this might be a little expensive (even if it’s not), but at least it’s not the price of those grand pianos/TVs/computers in the entrance. Sold!”

    Iirc they also purposely don’t label what foods or items are down which aisles so you have to go down them and, on the way, perhaps see something you hadn’t thought you needed before.

    Pretty sneaky but effective stuff.