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dukeofdummies@lemmy.worldOPto
memes@lemmy.world•The convention season is starting up againEnglish
3·6 months agoI can’t imagine the wildfires in the state helped either.
Minnesota still has a thriving con scene, the very first con we had after covid was nearly bursting at the seams. Matter of fact akeome con started up because of covid. It started as an online con and when it ended they decided to do it for real.
dukeofdummies@lemmy.worldOPto
memes@lemmy.world•The convention season is starting up againEnglish
1·6 months agoWhich cons did you go to?
I always find it interesting hearing the stories and events from other states and countries.
dukeofdummies@lemmy.worldto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Are infidelities really that common?English
6·7 months agoCheating is definitely in the minority of my social circle. I know of 2 amongst 100. At least people who were shameless enough to be admitting it.
That said, I do have maybe 5 open relationships in my friend group? I don’t usually ask, so maybe 10 total. My wife and I are monogamous. If you’re not, whatever, you do you. It isn’t a religious thing, it’s just how we roll.
But good lord at least talk about it, agree on it and stick with it. If you don’t then you’re a dick.
So what is the point of an email client? I’ve only ever really used web pages because it did everything I need.
dukeofdummies@lemmy.worldto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Can you give me some tips about your niche hobby?English
20·9 months agoThere’s two types of costume contests, cosplay contests that break things down by experience, and random Halloween contests that are basically reenactments of popularity contests in high school.
The former you’re gonna enter as a journeyman unless you built something so outrageous they gotta up the difficulty level. Make sure you have a TON of documentation and pics and explanations on how you did things. The judges are gonna wanna know how hard you worked on things and the amount of detail you put into it. If you spent 8 hours on the gold colored filigree on your bracers you damn well better mention it Typically unless you’re doing best performance, you get three poses and you’re off the stage. By the time you hit the stage the judges typically made their decisions so play to the crowd and do what looks good on film. If you are going for best performance, don’t feel pressured to use your full five minutes, or however long they give. Waaay to many people overstay their welcome, you wanna leave the people wanting more, not less. Hit your points, your high note, and if you’re still only halfway through your time, whatever. You’re not disqualified if you don’t use your time completely, and people will greatly appreciate someone moving the schedule faster than usual.
For the latter Halloween costume contests, effort means NOTHING. You could’ve thrown the damn thing together in five minutes and win, and if you spend 16 hours on it it will not improve your chances. The venue is looking for costumes that look great on the social media, is a character they love, makes them laugh, blows their mind, causes the venue to cheer, and (this is the most important bit) appears in front of whoever the hell is judging the competition. It’s 1 to 3 people who pick on the previously mentioned criteria. Each judge is gonna be a little different. Some judges listen to the crowd, some judges love horror films so every slasher villain goes on stage, some judges do NOT know what the hell a star wars is. The one thing that all judges have in common though, is that they exist in a 3 dimensional space and only have eyes in front of their head. If you’re a wall flower that doesn’t interact with people, you will not win the contest unless the judge is also sharing your wall. Build a dance circle, tip the bartender to figure out who’s judging tonight (they may or may not know) but if you wanna win, physics dictates that you appear in front of a judge as they wander the venue. That is more important than your costume.
dukeofdummies@lemmy.worldto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Why do most people stay in centralized social media platforms when the Fediverse exists?English
6·9 months agoSame reason why people stick with wells Fargo even if they can move to a credit union. It takes effort, changes to habit, and risk just to gain… what you already have.
dukeofdummies@lemmy.worldto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What do you do for "idle time" on your phone?English
1·9 months agoSame here, Manga and lemmy. I’ve been slowly trying to add discord to the rotation but I find it taxing. It’s so hard to keep track of which friend group is which and I can’t label servers with my own label
dukeofdummies@lemmy.worldto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What would you do with a single use portal gun?English
3·10 months agoSee, I don’t think water is the way to do it. I think you do it with a massive lead pole with teeth to lock into a gear.
Fully contained, no spillage
dukeofdummies@lemmy.worldto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What would you do with a single use portal gun?English
3·10 months agoOh, see I was thinking a portal on the ISS, but absolutely you could place one against the other, plop in a MASSIVE pole with teeth to match a gear, and just constantly generate power.
dukeofdummies@lemmy.worldto
Technology@lemmy.world•‘The tyranny of apps’: those without smartphones are unfairly penalised, say campaignersEnglish
61·10 months agoI for one cheer and root for my flip phone friends.
I’d never do it, but we have one at work and he’s singlehandedly causing so much grief at work. Because none of the engineers wanna use a security app for login. They want a fob.
IT refuses to pay for fobs and wants us to use an app, but they also don’t want to pay for a phone for anyone in engineering just to use the security app because it opens a floodgate of people with company phones.
It’s just wonderful to watch this fight from the sidelines sipping tea.
dukeofdummies@lemmy.worldto
Technology@lemmy.world•LegalEagle Suing PayPal's HoneyEnglish
91·11 months agoYou don’t share food if you’re starving. You don’t share time if you work 12 hour days, every day.
If you spend all your energy on survival, you got no energy to spare on anyone else. I bet our hypothetical starving person would be moral and share, if they had the chance and materials.
If they don’t… then it’s not a matter of won’t it’s can’t. People are more likely to share food they have excess of, time they have excess of. If they can’t spare it, they won’t.
dukeofdummies@lemmy.worldto
Technology@lemmy.world•LegalEagle Suing PayPal's HoneyEnglish
81·11 months agoSo what, then bribes and intimidation just… aren’t actually effective ways of bending morals?
I gotta say I have 0 papers backing me, but I feel like the fact that the very concepts are words in the English language carries some weight.
dukeofdummies@lemmy.worldto
Technology@lemmy.world•LegalEagle Suing PayPal's HoneyEnglish
121·11 months ago… How much are you willing to overlook to keep yourself from going homeless?
There just ain’t enough protection for whistleblowers right now.
dukeofdummies@lemmy.worldto
Technology@lemmy.world•LegalEagle Suing PayPal's HoneyEnglish
383·11 months agoI’m not. What do you get as a reward for blowing the whistle? Genuinely?
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There’s no bounty, even if there was you wouldn’t get it for at least a year after you blow the whistle.
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Once it’s discovered it’s you, you’re fired. There goes your paycheck, your health insurance. Now your home is in jeopardy and you have no decent income verification to get a new one.
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Good luck working in any job even remotely related to what you know. You now have a stigma in any background check and while a privately owned mom & pop might look at you favorably, there ain’t a single corporation who will take pride in hiring you. You’re risky.
The most ethical person, is one with no debt, who owns their home, and has 8 months expenses saved up. That’s not most Americans right now.
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Honestly steamdeck plus tpm module requirement for windows 11 is making me give a serious attempt to Linux for the new year. I do a very good job of taking care of my tech, it lasts decades.
I find it infuriating I have to change due to arbitrary OS decisions. I could’ve held onto my original pixel for quite some time, but it was no longer getting the security updates.
I feel like with the hardware requirements linux might see another bump come October
dukeofdummies@lemmy.worldto
Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What are some dating mistakes you often see when people try seeking a partner?English
2·11 months agoOh I know, that’s why I say go to events. Going to a coffee shop or even a club aren’t places I’d recommend. Interacting is so expensive there in terms of energy, anxiety, and stress.
But a lot of events have a lot more contextual options. Where questions are appreciated, as well as compliments. Anime conventions are a great example. “How did you make this?” “What show is this from?” “What is this line for?” “Can I get a picture?” “You look awesome”
Would never do that in a coffee shop.
dukeofdummies@lemmy.worldto
Technology@lemmy.world•PayPal Honey steals affiliate links and lies about finding the best couponsEnglish
12·1 year ago… Ok well here’s the link to the moment (in the video you watched) where we have one **staff ** member giving an official response to how LTT interpreted the problem in a forum post on their website.
https://youtu.be/vc4yL3YTwWk?t=811
And here’s a link to their youtube channel where they talk about honey
https://www.youtube.com/@LinusTechTips/search?query=honey
You’ll notice. There isn’t one.
So for at least two years, they knew honey was stealing affiliate links and considered it a big enough problem to end their partnership, but did not consider it a big enough issue to make a video on it.
dukeofdummies@lemmy.worldto
Technology@lemmy.world•PayPal Honey steals affiliate links and lies about finding the best couponsEnglish
4·1 year agoI think what was truly surprising is that they were bought for 4 billion.That much money for… basically an out and out scam. Paypal is that sure that it’s:
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entirely legal
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Will never be stopped
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will return on a 4 billion investment.
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dukeofdummies@lemmy.worldto
Technology@lemmy.world•PayPal Honey steals affiliate links and lies about finding the best couponsEnglish
111·1 year agoseriously… did you watch the video?
https://youtu.be/vc4yL3YTwWk?t=785
Here. Here’s a link to the exact moment that entire chapter starts.


music video that plays with this idea