When I lived in the dorms in college, I saw everyone around me getting care packages from their parents, and I felt sad because my parents’ gift to me was that I could take some hangars for my clothes, but not the nice ones. I went to my girlfriends house and when her mom realized I didn’t really have much food in my dorm room, she took me into her pantry and started loading up bags of food for me, including just so many cans of pineapples. It was such a touching gesture that made me feel loved, especially considering she was definitely less well off than my parents. I ate so many pineapples that I got very sick of them, but I still think about cans of pineapple with great fondness.
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I’m officially off of arch now and back on debian, my first and true linux love. I used to love arch for the AUR, but I had a couple of AUR packages that took so long to upgrade, they were basically un-upgradeable. I switched from i3 on X to sway on Wayland at the same time, so I can’t say how much of my issues were that, but various small issues are no longer issues, like better Playstation controller support. And I don’t have to restart every time I update repositories because I’m not constantly upgrading the Linux kernel. And there are so many .deb packages! But sincerely, thank you arch community. I still use the arch wiki.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•I'm from the Y'all zone. Is it offensive to call trans people y'all?
211·1 year agoY’all is the opposite of offensive for trans people. I lived in the south for a while, and I now use y’all specifically to be inclusive. I wouldn’t say “you guys” is offensive to trans women, but I would say for me and likely other trans women it briefly brings to mind being misgendered in the past, so I would call it a small kindness to ube as gender neutral as possible.
What was difficult was the constant security checks, it happened like every time I changed devices and occasionally things were encrypted and unable to be read, it felt totally unusable. It’s true that I don’t quite get docker, I have a few services that run on dcker, but most of them run straight on arch. Yes I know arch isn’t ideal for servers, I’ll fix it next summer during school break
I tried running a matrix server last year. I guess I will try again and see if a normie like me can make it somewhat usable.
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Selfhosted@lemmy.world•2024 Self-Host User Survey ResultsEnglish
3·1 year agoLol. For kids I won’t self host, I’ll pay for someone else to host
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Selfhosted@lemmy.world•2024 Self-Host User Survey ResultsEnglish
50·1 year agoI’m a woman who does some self hosting. Hi.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What were or are your thoughts on the US Pres. Debate?
70·1 year agoThe moderator are giving Trump so much time. They won’t control him at all.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What were or are your thoughts on the US Pres. Debate?
17·1 year agoIt’s on YouTube, on abc’s news live video. It’s still going on, but is probably almost over
Just like last time I will be holding my breath from November 5 till January 20.
Last year my wife said “most games can be run on Linux now because of steam deck, I think I’ll switch to Linux” and I said “well I guess I’m switching too” so I un-installed windows, and I’ve been full time since, even starting to self host jellyfin and nextcloud. She and I have both done linux in the past, but gaming was what was holding us back. There wasn’t anything WRONG with windows per se , except maybe the looming threat of windows 11, I just really love linux, open source, and being able to easily lift up the hood to peek inside
I use arch BTW. And Debian, my first love.
I’ve contributed a little, but its a bit discouraging. It’s not like can just map the whole city myself
There are no street numbers in osm for my city, Bend, OR. It has a population of 100,000+, so I’m guessing this app is really only useable for major cities.
I visited India back in 2008 and I loved it! However, since then I have realized that I am transgender, so I probably won’t go back unless the culture shifts toward being more friendly to queer people. That sours my taste for the country, unfortunately. I also escape fundamentalist Christianity, so I am very suspicious of fundamental and conservative religion, which I perceive as having a strong presence in India.
I don’t see India leading in innovation or technology. I see China, Japan, South Korea and the US as being leaders that way. I do see India as up and coming due to its population spike, it definitely feels like development is happening fast!
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What's an idea you have that should be an actual thing?
6·2 years agoI used to have the moto g stylus, it did that. I loved it’s camera. Too bad I bricked it by trying to downgrade it to unnecessarily install a custom rom.
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Technology@lemmy.world•Lynn Conway, leading computer scientist and transgender pioneer, dies at 85English
71·2 years agoAgreed, this is generally true, though personally as a trans woman, I prefer to refer to my child self with gender neutral terms. Others can refer to my child self with my current pronouns, or with gender neutral pronouns.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Do you prefer the headphone jack to be at the top or at the bottom on a phone, and why?
42·2 years agoI do not care about having a headphone jack, but it would be nice to have the charging port on top; it’s more out of the way for me.
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Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What is a gender neutral replacement for man, guys, buddy, etc?
247·2 years agoTrans women sometimes feel uncomfortable when they are called dude, so if you’re aiming for maximum comfort of people, dude is not a great choice.



I think that’s a pi: π, so loπers will be shot. Lopers, as in people who lope, or in others words, runners. Or maybe they are using loper as short for interloper, which actually makes sense in this context.